Grown up

How do you become more of a grown up like really?

Is it when you have barely anything left in your room, that way it doesn’t look childish ? Or your walls are basically all bare with no fun element to them at all. Someone please explain because I really do not feel like a grown up

They say you become a grown up after your teen years aka 20 is an adult however you still never get treated like an adult, for instance if i was to have a child at my age my mother and father would probably disown me saying I am too young I have my whole life ahead of me before I should have a child, yes money is probably more of an issue to them, they are very money orientated people. At my age my parent had 2 children a dog and a house so to me being told I am too young to have a family is a bit contradicting. Will I finally feel like a grown up when I do have a family ? Or will it be when I get a house and actually have to deal with grown up situations ? Please help my brain and let me know when I will finally feel like an adult.

QuestionBaby out!